Grosey's Messages

1. ATTENTION Narcissistic Dad: Wants attention focused on himself. Healthy Dad: Encourages his children to shine. 2. LOVE Narcissistic Dad: Love feels conditional. Healthy Dad: Love remains steady and secure. 3. SUCCESS Narcissistic Dad: Competes with his children. Healthy Dad: Celebrates their achievements. 4. MISTAKES Narcissistic Dad: Blames others. Healthy Dad: Accepts responsibility. 5. DISCIPLINE Narcissistic Dad: Uses fear and control. Healthy Dad: Teaches with guidance and consistency. 6. EMOTIONS Narcissistic Dad: Dismisses or mocks feelings. Healthy Dad: Listens and validates emotions. 7. BOUNDARIES Narcissistic Dad: Sees boundaries as disrespect. Healthy Dad: Respects healthy limits. 8. CONFLICT Narcissistic Dad: Must win every argument. Healthy Dad: Seeks understanding and resolution. 9. PRAISE Narcissistic Dad: Uses praise to control. Healthy Dad: Gives genuine encouragement. 10. CHILDREN'S INDEPENDENCE Narcissistic Dad: Feels threatened by it. Healthy Dad: Prepares them for it. 11. FAMILY ROLE Narcissistic Dad: Family serves his needs. Healthy Dad: Serves the family's well-being. 12. LEGACY Narcissistic Dad: Leaves emotional wounds. Healthy Dad: Leaves emotional security. © MENTAL HEALTH WITH OMOYE #narcissisticabuse #fblifestyle

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